Congratulations!  We’ve made it to Day 15 of our Clutter-Free Challenge.

Since this is my first time presenting a series like this, I was unsure of the response.  May I just say you all blessed my socks off?!!  Every day I looked forward to your comments to me and each other, and every day my inbox contained sweet notes of encouragement and tender sharings of your lives and struggles.  Thank you.  I value you and your time, and consider it an honor that you signed up for my challenge.

As we end this series, I have a few more thoughts to share with you.  Mainly because I know how defeated you might get in this area.  Keeping a home de-cluttered and organized is an ongoing challenge.  Life keeps changing.  What worked last month, might not work this month.  And just when you think you’ve got this de-cluttering thing conquered, something will happen to you (or me) to make us feel like giving up and accepting clutter.  What we’ll need in that moment is perspective.  Imagine this …

You’ve just cleaned up the kitchen and family room and sat back with a Diet Coke to relax for a minute, when along comes a high school wrestler who will dump his stinky shoes and sweaty shirt on the counter.  Not long after that, backpacks will get dropped in a line from the door to where you are sitting.  Papers will be tossed on the dining room table.  Later, a tall handsome man walks in, kicks off his shoes, drops a briefcase on the floor, and sets a notebook and travel mug next to the shoes.  And five people will ask you what’s for dinner within a 15-minute time span. Four will come back to ask if they can have a snack.

And you will look at the mess, and sigh. And it’s right here, right at this point, you have a choice.

Hopefully … just maybe … with God’s strength and wisdom …  you will pause before attempting to make everyone feel guilty for unloading all their stuff and messing up your hard work.  And in that pause, before unkind thoughts can take root, or angry words can be spoken, God’s Spirit will give you a “hug” and remind you that life is messy.  Really. Messy.  And people are more important than clean counters.  And this won’t last forever. And LOTS of people would give just about anything to have someone they love walk in the door and drop their stuff.

Then, after you’ve thanked God for stopping your gut reaction and giving you perspective, you will get up and hug that wrestler and tell him you are SO HAPPY he is home.  You will kiss those little backpack-wearers on the forehead.  You will cut up an apple and wash some grapes.  You will kiss your husband and put his travel mug in the dishwasher. And realize that this is much more important than having a perfect home.

Oh how perspective has saved me from doing and saying so many regrettable things.  You see, our highest calling is to love God and love others.   Yes managing our homes and schedules is important.  Obviously I believe that strongly.  But maintaining a heart of love should always supersede our desire for a clutter-free home.  So when the interruptions come (and they will) … and when someone messes with your plans (and they will) … remember to keep perspective.  Keep first things first.  And  Jesus’ commands always come first.

Let’s say you keep perspective, and you avoid a meltdown, but in the quiet of your heart you feel like a failure in managing your time and home.  And maybe you signed up for this challenge thinking, I’m really going to get it together now.  But three weeks have gone by and you haven’t made one change.  If the truth were told, you are actually further behind because now you’ve spent way too much time reading those long blog post by that wordy Whitwer.

If that’s you, and you are even more discouraged than before, please take those thoughts captive, and hear what I have to say.   God is accomplishing HIS purposes for you through this challenge.   God’s ways are not our ways.  You might have signed up with the intent of de-cluttering, and God had another purpose altogether.  I learned long ago that I can sign up for one “class” but God had already scheduled me for another.  Be open to what God wanted to do during your time on this challenge.  If God did something completely crazy like heal a relationship or light a creative spark inside you that’s going to mean even more crafty clutter, please let me know.

Just two more things. Really, and then I’ll end.   First, if you have taken any before and after pictures, I hope you’ll post them on your blog.  Then leave a comment with a link to your blog.  To leave a comment, click here to go to my blog.  My friend Julie Gillies posted some of her before and after photos.  I hope you’ll hop over there to by clicking here.

Finally, I hope you’ll consider staying on as a subscriber to my blog.  I will continue to write two times a week about my passions: home, family, organization, time management and productivity.  I occasionally write about general faith topics, usually when I have a devotion running on Proverbs 31.  But if you decide to unsubscribe, I want to thank you for joining me for this study. Your time is valuable and your trust is precious to me.

That’s it.  I’m done.  At least for today.  I’ll look forward to sharing more with you in the future.

Grace & Peace,

Glynnis

Heavenly Father, I worship You for Your goodness and faithfulness. Even though my life feels out of control at times, You never are.  As I continue to bring order to my life, I know I’m going to need Your help.  I get so easily discouraged and want to quit. Help me to persevere.  But I also need to know when to let things go and just rest and enjoy my messy life.  Please help me know the difference, and have the courage to do the right thing.  I love You, Lord.  In Jesus name, Amen.

 

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Welcome to day 14 in our Clutter-Free Challenge. You’ve almost made it!  We are rounding third … actually almost to home.  And I’m so proud of you!!!

We’ve got a lot to cover today regarding closets, so I’m going to jump right into it.  But I also want to remind you that I’m only dealing with de-cluttering – not organizing.  My inclination is to start with organizing when it comes to closets, but I don’t want you to worry about that right now.  Just focus on minimizing the clutter, and it’s very possible you won’t need to make major organizing changes.

My guess is you are frustrated with your closets.  And you might even think your problem is not enough closet space.  You could be right.  However, the reality is, unless you have a custom-designed home (or are already well-organized), no one thinks they have enough storage.  Why?  Stuff expands to fill empty space. So almost all of our closets, cabinets and garages get filled to capacity.

That works until it doesn’t.  When our clothes are smashed and wrinkled, when we can’t find winter gloves, and when we spend money on gifts we forgot we’d already bought – then we realize it’s time to do something about those black holes.  Then we are forced to make decisions. Maybe the hardest place to make decisions is our clothing closet, which is our focus today.

Before you start to de-clutter your closet, you’ll need some supplies.  If you haven’t done this for awhile, you are probably going to get rid of a lot of things.  My favorite piece of advice is to use black garbage bags.  Why?  Once you’ve removed an item from your closet and put it in the bag, you can’t see it.  And if you can’t see it, you are less likely to go soft and pull it out.

Next, get ready to deal with broken dreams:  Dreams that we can still fit into that dress, wear those heels or that someday our favorite pink shirt will actually look good on us.  Clothing is associated with special events and seasons of our lives, and is very difficult to give up.  Having to admit that I’m older and can’t wear certain styles is painful.  De-cluttering my bedroom closet means I might have to let those dreams go.  However, I’ve found a way to make it easier.

When it’s hard to part with a dress I once loved, there’s an image I bring to my mind.   It’s of a single mother, trying to get a job.  She doesn’t have anything nice to wear, nor the money to run to the mall and pick up a cute outfit.   Then I look at the lovely skirt I no longer wear.  That skirt can either hang in my closet gathering dust, or help a sister I haven’t met.

There are always exceptions, but mostly it’s just wrong for me to keep things I don’t use, and likely never will.  I strongly believe we should be living more like the first Christians who shared everything they had with each other.  No one was in need.  Whether I give it away or sell it at a yard sale, depends on my family’s needs at the moment.  Either way, someone else is being blessed.  I want to live open handed, not closefisted.  For if my hands are closed, it’s very hard for God to place something new in them.

So, with that in mind,  as you look at your closet, consider the following two categories of items to remove:

1)  What you don’t need or want anymore.

Here are four reasons to remove items.

Damaged or stained beyond repair.  Re-purpose these clothes when possible.  Use scraps for dusting or arts and crafts.  Give some to quilters you know.  Make clothing into other items like purses or tote bags.  Set some aside for messy or dirty jobs such as yard work, cleaning or arts and crafts.

Not my style.  No matter how much you love them, remove clothes you don’t wear due to style.  Fifteen years after working outside the house, my dress clothes hung in my closet.  Even if I could have fit into them, they weren’t my personal style any more.  Or, they were too “young” for me.

Not worn. Shari Braendel, author of Good Girls Don’t Have to Dress Bad, wrote, “Without emotion, take everything out of your closet you have not worn in the last 18 months.  The reason for the 18-month rule is that this gives you two seasons of the previous one you just went through.  For example, if summer has just ended and you have things hanging in your closet that you didn’t wear this year OR the summer before, chances are you are not going to wear it next year”  I like Shari’s advice better than the typical one-year rule.

Undecided.  Some items of clothing present a challenge.  We don’t love them, nor hate them.  Professional organizer and Mission: Organization guest, Monica Ricci offers this piece of advice, “Go through the ‘undecided’ pile piece by piece, and ask yourself what value each piece currently gives you.  Clothes that aren’t serving you need to be culled to make room for those pieces that are valuable.”

Wrong size.  We have the opportunity to look stylish at any age or weight.  If there are clothes that don’t fit well, or not at all, let them go.  Of course, keeping some things makes sense if you are on a weight loss plan.  Just be honest with yourself.

The other category of items to remove are those that could, or should, be stored somewhere else.  Here are some tips for them:

2) What can be stored elsewhere

Sometimes our closets are catchalls for miscellaneous items.  As you evaluate the odds and ends in your storage spaces, consider if it would make more sense to store them elsewhere.  Try to keep items close to where they are used.

1.  Move items to another room.   When possible, keep like items together, and in a logical space. If you’ve stored golf clubs in your closet try to put them with other sports equipment.  This might involve a whole-house approach if you’ve got like items stored in multiple places.

2.  Remove items you want to keep, but seldom wear.  For example, formal wear or ski clothes.  These items can be stored in an attic or garage depending on fabric and weather.  If you have room, consider storing seldom-used hanging items on a rolling garment rack. Buy one with a clear or fabric zipped covering.  For under $100, you can get a large portable wardrobe with rods for hanging and places for shoes and other folded clothing.

3.  Remove off-season clothing.   Hopefully you can rotate seasonal clothing.  Store these items under the bed or in another dresser.  Or consider a portable garment rack tucked in a garage or work room.

Clearing closets is often easier with a friend … an honest one … and one with some style if possible. I’d still be wearing somethings from the 80s if not for some honest friends.

Once you’ve trimmed down your closets, I hope you’ll spend some time considering adding  organizational helps.  If you want ideas, visit websites like www.organize.com or www.containerstore.com.

Please join me tomorrow as we wrap up this Clutter-Free Challenge.  I’ve got some final thoughts to share, one last giveaway, and I want to give you an opportunity to provide a link to your blogs to share your success stories with each other.

Grace & Peace,

Glynnis

Heavenly Father, it’s going to be tough going through my clothes closet.  There are many emotions connected with those items.  Help me to trust You enough to release the past.  I don’t want to hold on to things that I need to let go.  Help me to see this as a chance to release the old, to share with others, and to be open for the new thing You want to do in my life.  There’s a part of me that’s afraid to let things go for fear I won’t have enough.  But today I stand on Your promise to meet my needs.  Thank You for your faithfulness.  I choose to trust You today.  In Jesus name, Amen.

Welcome to Day 13 in our Clutter-Free Challenge.  Today we are going to address bedrooms and baths.  I’m sorry we won’t have time to address children’s rooms specifically (which could take a week if your kids are like mine).  But on Friday I’ll tell you about a back-to-school organizing series Karen Ehman and I will be co-leading in late August specifically for moms.  For today, the tips I’m sharing will likely apply to your room.

If you stood at the door to your bedroom, what would you see? A treadmill doubling as a clothes hanger?  Books on the floor?  Bills strewn on the dresser?  Laundry piled on the bed?  Now, ask yourself:  Why is it like that?

Here are some possible reasons:

• The closet is too full
• The dressers are overstuffed
• There aren’t enough hangers
• You need a bigger jewelry case, or less jewelry
• You need a bookcase, a bigger bookcase, or fewer books
• You hate taking the three extra steps needed to hang up your robe 

The answer to your clutter problem is somewhere in here.  You probably know what it is, but you avoid it because of the domino effect.  In other words, your clothes are draped over the treadmill because your closet is too full.  Your closet is too full because your under-the-bed boxes are filled with things you don’t wear any more. One problem leads to another, and it’s easier to ignore them all by doing nothing.

Perhaps the answer lies in solving one problem, while allowing another to sit until you can address it.  You can’t solve everything at once.  But you can change something … even if means loading books, magazines and clothes in plastic tubs until you can figure out what to do with them.  So, here are some suggestions to deal with clutter.

Minimize visual clutter

Even if your husband’s ties are organized by color – but are hanging in plain view – it’s still clutter.  When possible, avoid the temptation to install hooks or racks in your master bedroom, as these create visual clutter.  Instead, move these items to the closet, or hide behind a door.

Bedside table

If possible, invest in a bedside table with drawers or shelves.  Use it to store reading material, glasses, hand lotion, journal, pens and television remote controls.  Limit the number of items on top of your bedside table to one book and magazine, plus your lamp, clock and one decorative item.

If you don’t have the option for a bedside table with drawers, purchase a decorative box with a lid to store your nighttime accessories.

To get even more storage, consider putting a small dresser by your bed instead of a nightstand.  Or if you are a reader, consider a specially-designed reader’s table, with multiple shelves for books and magazine.

Under-the-bed storage

Fill every space under your bed with specially-designed boxes.  Spend a bit more to purchase the kind with wheels for ease of access. Make sure you measure the height of that space to avoid a second trip to the store.  If you don’t want to buy boxes, consider storing suitcases under the bed filled with items to store.  Another option are the space-saving bags.  Use these to store items that are bulky such as linens, comforters or heavy winter outerwear.  To hide this storage space, use a bed skirt.

Here are some ideas on what to store under your bed:

• Off-season clothing
• Seldom-worn dress clothes
• Shoes or boots
• Extra bedding
• Books, DVDs or CDs
• Craft supplies
• Photo albums

Dresser

To make the most of the space you have, take the time to empty each drawer in your dresser.   Consider the following tips:

• Store themed clothing elsewhere (exercise, pool/beach)
• Remove unwanted or off-season clothing
• Match socks; discard singles
• Discard stretched/torn/overly-worn undergarments
• Add drawer dividers to sort smaller items, like socks and underwear

Alternative storage

If you need storage but don’t have the budget or room for another piece of big furniture, consider these ideas for alternate storage:

 

• Hope chest or trunk. This can sit at the foot of the bed, and doubles as a bench.
• Vintage or antique suitcases stacked on top of each other. These suitcases could hold blankets, winter clothes, sweaters
• Decorative covered boxes.  Stack multiple boxes on top of each other.  They can hold lightweight items like scarves, belts, and jewelry
• Vintage picnic basket. Tuck the television remote, CDs or DVDs in a picnic basket with lid.

 

For years I focused on every other room in the house – except my bedroom.  It was a disaster.  Not restful.  Very stressful.  About five years ago I decided it was time for me and my husband to have a clutter-free haven.  So I applied my own tips and LOVE how orderly it is.  And I’m more motivated to keep it that way too.  Although I still leave my bathrobe on the unmade bed some days … just keeping it real.

I hope this post inspires you to focus on your own room first, then de-clutter the other bedrooms in the house.

I’ll end with some tips for the bathroom.  There are two places that seem to get the most cluttered in my bathrooms:  The medicine cabinet and under the sink.  Here are a few tips for de-cluttering these spaces.

Medicine cabinet

Here’s a step-by-step approach:

1. Remove all containers.  Clean shelves.
2. Throw away empty bottles.
3. Safely discard unused prescription medication (return to a pharmacy for safe disposal)
4. Consider storing medications away from humidity of a bathroom
5. Discard products you won’t use or don’t like
6. Combine like products when safe to do so (like suntan lotion)
7. Replace items in similar groupings
8. Add tiered wire shelving for small items
9. Add labeled drawers for small items
10. Create kits:  camping, manicure, beach, first aid
11. Make a list of emergency products to have on hand
    

Under the Sink

Don’t neglect to bring order to the space under the sink.  You can apply many of the same steps as the medicine cabinet.  By adding affordable stacking shelves, you can utilize every inch of vertical space.  Consider adding baskets to stand items like curling irons and blow dryers.  You might also add  stacked drawers.  These come in plastic, wire or mesh, and in various sizes.

Tomorrow will address the dreaded black-holes of our homes – the bedroom closets!

If you’ve taken any before and after photos of your decluttering, consider posting them on your own blog.  On Friday, I’m going to share a link to a friend’s blog who tackled a problem area.  And I’d love for you to post a comment with a link to your blog.  Who doesn’t love before and after photos?  Until tomorrow …

Grace & Peace,

Glynnis

Heavenly Father, You created us with a need to rest … our bodies and our minds.  I confess that I haven’t always honored Your request to rest, nor have I prioritized it in my life.  Help me to create a place of peace and quiet, where I can sleep without feeling like there’s something I should be doing.  Guide me as I de-clutter my bedroom and the rooms of those I love.  I want to be a woman who is rested, strong and ready to do Your work.  In Jesus name, Amen.

 

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